Salute!
As for trying to make or maintain contact with officers, as both a Chef d'Etat-Major and Corps commander I have sent multiple emails out to the officers in my units, not just at muster time, but for other reasons as well.
The vast majority of my emails never get a response from more than a fraction of the recipients.
During musters, a total of 4 - 5 emails were sent in total over a 2 week period to those who failed to muster or finally did so in the last day(s).
As with so much in life the core of the issue being discussed here is
communication.
Members of a club which they voluntarily joined have a responsibility (as I see it) to maintain contact with the club.
If a member has real life issues that require him taking a break from gaming -
or otherwise be absent from general club interaction, it simply takes an email explaining in the smallest amount of detail to someone in the club that you need a leave of absence.
If you are up front saying going to be gone for a year - well maybe you will lose Regt assignment, but you could surely maintain your rank; if you are up front about being gone for several months, say through one muster - I'm sure it is no big deal - because you
communicated! In no way what so ever do I see it as the responsibility of the club to chase or track down erstwhile members - the burden of
membership is on the members.
Nothing more and nothing less.
Regards,