Mark Hornsby wrote:
To be honest, I think this has got way out of hand, these rules have caused nothing but backbiting, lets get back to the enjoyable, funny and entertaining posts, yes, rules may have to change but does it need to rip the club apart in the process. In my year with the club I have met some fantastic people and very funny ones, Scott, Richard, to name two and many others who I forget,(my memory is not what it used to be, so my apologies) and it is like a big family, a bit of a dysfunctional family but a family all the same, lets not loose sight of this, we are a group who come together to fight the battles of the period, and enjoy the banter and have a laugh when doing so. I know no-one is intentionally going out of their way to offend or hurt the feelings of other members but it is starting to happen and we need to curb this before our family gets split.
I want to echo and say, though the debates have been going on and have been heated at times, I in NO way and with NO uncertain terms want anyone to get so worked up, get their feelings hurt, and upset that they quit or walk away. This is suppose to be for fun after all. I'll be honest, it has been sort of a drag for me for a year or two now. I have gotten so mad, that I quit once already, even though it was only a few months, but is the first time I outright quit one of these Clubs. All because I had an exceptionally bad day, came home and was badgered to no end on the forum. I know I am not the only one who has done so either. I also know I have made peoples hands shake in anger at their computer desk and their hearts race, much like some have done to me. No one should feel that way. So the last thing I want to do, these days, is for anyone to get really, really upset & hurt by this process. Everyone is entitled to their fun and every has their burdens in life. Let's be sure not to add more to anyone else's plates. I mean it, for all parties and side of these debates. After all, what do visitors think when they come to our forums and read all this, heck what do members think?? What will people think years from now when they see these threads, but don't know the people involved in them.....what will they take away form it all??
I am not out to ruin anyone's days and I also like to not have mine ruined either.
