Andy - sorry this happened in your game. Right off there should have been an "Alternate Victory Points for Leader Casualties" rule ADDED to the Optional Rules when they started down this rabbit hole. Leave the old rule as is. That was not their choice so I just choose to turn it OFF.
But thankfully, its not in the default code so we all can just turn the rule off and not use the rule. I have an idea on how to solve all of this but it will take manual calculations on the part of the players. We would play with the rule ON but use a basic list of points for each type of leader. It would all average out where you have leaders with low values mixed with leader of higher values. It would be much better to go that route than to use the rule as programmed as it is now.
Something like this:
Army Leader:
Captured/Killed: 150 pts.
Wounded: 75 pts. (wounded is an odd name for this category - it should be called "Incapacitated" as Napoleon suffered a wound during the Eckmuhl campaign but was not incapacitated)
Wing/Corps Leader:
Captured/Killed: 100 pts
Wounded: 50 pts
Division Leader:
Captured/Killed: 40 pts.
Wounded: 20 pts.
Brigade Leader:
Captured/Killed: 20 pts.
Wounded: 10 pts.
The usual "House Rules" about Napoleon and other significant leaders of the era can still apply for those that want to end the game there and then once they are killed or captured. I agree that had Napoleon been killed that the French army probably would have recoiled in horror and that would have ended the wars.
For me: I would use an even easier scale that would take into account ONLY the leader's effect on the current battle. Thus ANY kind of leader casualty would count the same. I would lower the upper amount and raise the lower amounts in that instance. And folks have their own ideas on this ... I wont debate the values. Just tossed them out as an idea.
In trying to "Standardize things" Rich and co. have instead ended up splintering the players more in this case. Hopefully the Optional Rules that I LOVE to use are not going to be mucked around with. If it goes too far I have other things to do with my time than wonder what else is going to be screwed up in this series.
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Generalfeldmarschall Wilhelm Prinz Peters von Dennewitz
3. Husaren-Regiment, Reserve-Kavallerie, Preußischen Armee-Korps
Honarary CO of Garde-Ulanen Regiment, Garde-Grenadier Kavallerie
NWC Founding Member
For Club Games: I prefer the Single Phase mode of play. I prefer to play with the following options
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