You usually will see 2-3 players per side. Nothing wrong with 4 with one player acting as the CinC issuing just orders either.
Favorite battles to play MP (3 players per side) are:
1. Dresden.
2. Leipzig.
3. Austerlitz.
4. Bautzen.
5. Borodino.
6. Katzbach
There are several operational level battle scenario I put together in the games I worked on that really work nicely for MP play. Jena-Auerstadt full campaign one map scenario. Several from Eylau-Friedland. And many from RBR too.
A medium sized scenario with 2 players per side works well too if you only want to have one corps per player. Dennwitz & Grossbeeren from Leipzig are good ones for newer players. Several of the medium sized battles from NRC work too.
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Generalfeldmarschall Wilhelm Prinz Peters von Dennewitz
3. Husaren-Regiment, Reserve-Kavallerie, Preußischen Armee-Korps
Honarary CO of Garde-Ulanen Regiment, Garde-Grenadier Kavallerie
NWC Founding Member
For Club Games: I prefer the Single Phase mode of play. I prefer to play with the following options
OFF:
MDF, VP4LC, NRO, MTD, CMR, PR, MIM, NDM, OMR (ver 4.07)